Love does not Guarantee the success of a Relationship

I have been in relationships and I have found out that love does not guarantee the success of a relationship. Love alone cannot help you stick to one person. After all, cheating is not always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, Loving someone does not guarantee not falling in love with any other person.

Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart, It works out because of emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline. You see, times will come when you will see people that are better than the one you are in a relationship with. 

In those times, Love will not help you, Self control, Emotional intelligence and commitment will. No matter how you feel for someone, The person you are committed to ranks first in your life. 

You think married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel
funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!. But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is a great arsenal to destroy that impulse. 

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them. It takes more than Love. 

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient, when it's sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there but that can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship. 

After then, You will realise that the feelings have dropped, It is now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility, YOURS!. Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream. It's always tough, it will sometimes be so bitter but you can always make it work through hard work. Both of You!

Understanding Everything About Search Engine Optimization [SEO] and How its Work

SEO stands for Search Engine Optimization. SEO is all about optimizing a 

website
 

for search engines. SEO is a technique for:
· designing and developing a website to rank well in search engine results.
· improving the volume and quality of traffic to a website from search engines.
· marketing by understanding how search algorithms work, and what human
visitors might search.
 

SEO is a subset of search engine marketing. SEO is also referred as SEO copyrighting, because most of the techniques that are used to promote sites in
search engines, deal with text.
 

If you plan to do some basic SEO, it is essential that you understand how search
engines work.

How does a Search Engine Work?

Search engines perform several activities in order to deliver search results.
 

· Crawling - Process of fetching all the web pages linked to a website. This
task is performed by a software called a crawler or a spider (or Googlebot,
in case of Google).
 

· Indexing - Process of creating index for all the fetched web pages and
keeping them into a giant database from where it can later be retrieved.
Essentially, the process of indexing is identifying the words and expressions
that best describe the page and assigning the page to particular keywords.
 

· Processing - When a search request comes, the search engine processes
it, i.e., it compares the search string in the search request with the indexed
pages in the database.
 

· Calculating Relevancy - It is likely that more than one page contains the
search string, so the search engine starts calculating the relevancy of each
of the pages in its index to the search string.
 

· Retrieving Results - The last step in search engine activities is retrieving
the best matched results. Basically, it is nothing more than simply
displaying them in the browser.
Search engines such as Google and Yahoo! often update their relevancy algorithm
dozens of times per month. When you see changes in your rankings, it is due to
an algorithmic shift or something else beyond your control.

Although the basic principle of operation of all search engines is the same, the
minor differences between their relevancy algorithms lead to major changes in
the relevancy of results.

How to make your websites DESIGN AND LAYOUT perfect for your victors

The website design and layout gives the first impression about your site. There
are sites which are too fancy and regular net surfers just reach those sites and
come out even without creating a single click.

Search engines are very smart but after all, they are software and not human
being, who can read the content of their interest. If you make your site too
complicated, then the search engine would not be able to parse the content of
your site properly, and finally indexing would not be efficient, which results in a
low rank.

The actual page content should have a keyword density of about 10% and should
weigh in at about 200 words - but there are as many opinions about this as there
are SEO experts. Some say, keyword density should be 5% and some say it should
be 20%. You can go with 10% which is good enough.
Here are a few guidelines that you should keep in mind while designing a web
page.

· You should have more text content than HTML elements.
· No frames. They are the enemies of search engines, and search engines are
enemies of frames.
· No ads if possible. Because most of the ads use JavaScript which is not
advised to be used.
· No JavaScript. If you need JavaScript, call it from an external file rather
than dumping the code in the HTML file. JavaScript drop-down menus
prevent spiders from crawling beyond your homepage. If you use them, be
sure to include text links at the bottom of the page.
· Do not put anything in the page topic that does not fit perfectly.
· No unnecessary directories. Keep your files as close to the root as possible.
· No fancy stuff (Flash, Splash, Animated Gifs, Rollovers, etc.) unless
absolutely necessary.

How to Choose a Best Domain Name for Your Website

When you start thinking of doing a business through internet, the first thing that
you think about is your website domain name. Before you choose a domain name,
you should consider the following:
· Who would be your target audience?
· What you intend to sell to them. Is it a tangible item or just text content?
· What will make your business idea unique or different from everything else
that is already available in the market?
Many people think it is important to have keywords in a domain. Keywords in the
domain name are usually important, but it usually can be done while keeping the
domain name short, memorable, and free of hyphens.
Using keywords in your domain name gives you a strong competitive advantage
over your competitors. Having your keywords in your domain name can increase
click-through-rates on search engine listings and paid ads as well as make it easier
to use your keywords in get keyword rich descriptive inbound links.
Avoid buying long and confusing domain names. Many people separate the words
in their domain names using either dashes or hyphens. In the past, the domain
name itself was a significant ranking factor but now search engines have advanced
features and it is not a very significant factor anymore.
Keep two to three words in your domain name that will be easy to memorize.
Some of the most notable websites do a great job of branding by creating their
own word. Few examples are eBay, Yahoo!, Expedia, Slashdot, Fark, Wikipedia,
Google, etc.
You should be able to say it over the telephone once, and the other person should
know how to spell it, and they should be able to guess what you sell.

Finally, you should be able to answer the following questions:
· Why do you want to build your website?
· Why should people buy off your site and not from other sites?
· What makes you different from others?
· Who are your target audience and what do you intend to sell?

HOW TO BE HAPPY... RIGHT NOW!

Today is the day to stop living for the future. This present moment is all that you will ever experience, so you must learn to enjoy the present, if you are ever to enjoy yourself at all.

Too many people postpone their happiness waiting for some future goal to manifest. People decide that they will be happy “…when I get a better job”, “…when I meet the love of my life,” “…when my children are grown,” “…when I retire.” We use these excuses, and countless others, to allow ourselves to live with less enjoyment and happiness than we deserve.

Often, after one goal is accomplished, we immediately create another, so that we are in a perpetual state of waiting for our lives to become worthy of our enjoyment, rather than simply enjoying the life we have right this instant. Obviously it is vital to keep striving towards the betterment of your life, but you must also be able to enjoy yourself while you are creating a better future.

The way to do this is to realize that this present moment is all that you will ever experience. Both the past and the future are abstractions of your mind. The only intimate, real experience is that of this moment. In this moment lies your ability to make changes in your life, including the ability to simply enjoy where you are. If you cannot be happy now, when will you ever be happy? Fortunately, there is a simple method for enjoying this moment, and the key is awareness. Simply be fully aware of whatever you are experiencing right now. Focus your awareness on your senses, and feel the sensual nature of physical reality. Look around you, really try to see the world, and listen quietly to any sounds entering your brain. By becoming aware of precisely where you are at this moment, your brain will shift to a more contemplative, relaxed state, and joy will naturally replace the discord of anxiety that comes from focussing on the past or the future. When you
become aware of the eternal now in which you exist, you can begin to feel the power that is available to you in every instant, and this power can be used to immediately work towards the attainment of your goals.

Take five minutes right now and feel the truth of these words:

I AM FULLY AWARE OF THIS PRESENT MOMENT. ALL OF MY
SENSES ARE OPEN TO THIS MOMENT, AND I FEEL THE POWER
OF THE ETERNAL NOW FLOWING THROUGH MY LIFE.

TAKE ACTION: Focus your attention on this moment, and imagine that all of your financial goals are met. How would you feel if this were true in this instant. Feel these emotions. For five minutes, feel as strongly as you can that financial independence is yours right now, and bask in the emotions this brings to you. Enjoy this process. Whatever feelings you think you would have if your financial goals were met, feel them NOW!

“The treasure house of infinite riches is within you
and all around you. By learning the laws of mind,
you can extract from that infinite storehouse within
you everything you need in order to live life gloriously,
joyously, and abundantly.”
Joseph Murphy